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| More Tags: Especially if you'd like to date a certain girl, it's to your advantage to ask her some time in advance. If she's a girl who has many dates, the earlier you ask, the more chance you have of finding her free that evening. It sometimes takesa while to get up the courage to ask a girl to a special function. But proper planning will make it a lot easier for both of you. And it will be a wonderful feeling to have your date all lined up when other boys are still wondering whom to ask, and "Will she go with me?" Your date appreciates too the security of an early invitation. Movie dates, or dates to functions where extensive preparation is not necessary, don't require as much advance notice. At the same time, it's good to extend your invitation a week or so ahead of time if you want to be sure of getting your date. A girl appreciates this kindness, for it enables her to schedule her week end to include your date, without having to exclude other activities which may also be important to her. Spur-of-the-Moment Dates This doesn't mean that spur-of-the-moment dates are not acceptable. If you and your friends get together and suddenly decide to go skating or to a show, it's perfectly all right to call and ask a girl to accompany you. The girl who feels insulted or rejects such an invitation just because it's at the last moment may find herself left out in the cold eventually, missing a lot of fun. Many a girl enjoys the spontaneity of dropping what she is doing and getting into the swing of a skating party or wienie roast. Second-Choice Dates Sometimes you have a date for an affair and something unforeseen happens so that your date cannot make it at the last minute. Then you are in the awkward position of calling another girl-especially awkward if she knows you already had a date. If a girl stops to realize, however, how many "second choices" you had to select from, she will not be hurt. She will be pleased, instead, that you chose her and will accept your invitation. In such a case it helps greatly to let a girl know that you really like her as a person and are not inviting her just because you couldn't get someone else. Many "second choices," who have been mature enough not to resent being "second choice/' have ended up as "first choices" later. ALTERNATIVES IN ASKING There are two usual ways of asking for a date. You can phone a girl at her home or you can ask her in person. Each way has its own advantages, and the method you use depends upon your own taste and whom you are asking out. Sometimes you may have to write to ask for a date. If, for instance, you want a girl to come and visit you at college, you will most likely send her an invitation by mail. In most instances, however, invitations are issued either in person or by phone. Which of these two methods is more satisfactory depends upon you and your surroundings. |