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| More Tags: The Much Older Fellow Often very young girls, who are just beginning to think about dates, yearn to go out with "older men." Looking around, they see most of the boys in their own grade absorbed in baseball, model planes, and other "kid stuff." Then they see seventeen- and eighteen-year-old seniors driving cars, taking girls out gallantly, providing all the excitement they yearn for. They themselves are shy and self-conscious in social situations, but the senior boy is poised, sure of himself. He's also in the midst of a social swing, while they're on the lonely fringes. So it's understandable that many a younger girl longs for a chance to date with a poised, popular, older boy. The same thing occurs at the college level; freshman girls pine for the attentions of the sophisticated upperclassmen. The senior man strides across the campus apparently self-assured; he belongs to the charmed inner circle of those whorate. Pity the pool self-conscious freshman lad who has to compete with this older man-about-campus in getting dates! Sometimes, though rarely, a much younger girl does get that coveted date with an older boy. When it does happen, there are hazards. The older boy who "robs' the cradle" may not be as popular among his own age group as he appears to be. He may really feel so insecure that he has to date a considerably younger girl to cover his uneasiness. Sometimes he asks a younger girl out because she appears to be more easily exploited. Hook, Line, and Sinker There is some evidence to support the fear that when an older male seeks the company of a young girl, it's just because she's innocent and easily exploited. Girls of his own age and social experience have, by this time, learned to protect themselves from unwelcome advances. They have become skillful in avoiding potentially hazardous situations and in warding off invitations that they don't wish to accept. The young, unaware girl lacks these techniques which come with social experience, and so appears to be "easy" to the older, exploitive male. She has not been around enough yet to know what is and what is not expected of her. She fears that she will get a reputation as a "prude" or "chicken" if she refuses to go along with her date's suggestions. She doesn't want to offend this superior male-so much older, smoother, and supposedly wiser. She can't differentiate sincerity from "a line," and fails to perceive or stop the sequence of events that leads into situations she can't handle. "Sweet talk" flatters the young girl. She really believes that he has never seen eyes like hers, nor smelled hair so sweet. She wants so much to be loved that she accepts at face value his declaration of love at first sight. She delights in his excessive attentions, not realizing that they're the age-old waysin which a man paves the way for intimacies. But then, when he begins to be urgent in his demands, she is offended, bewildered, and frightened. This happens, of course, because she has not recognized the step-by-step process and so is unprepared for the end result. |